Have you ever heard of the saying, “Failure is not falling down but refusing to get up?” There is not a person on this planet that hasn’t failed at something; no matter how good they might think they are.
While some may think that failing is a sign of weakness, I am here to tell you that the myth has just been busted! Failure is a crucial part of being human and, like it or not, failure can bring your life to a complete standstill at times. This includes financial strain, relationship issues and any other aspect of your life you are trying to make a success out of.
Why you need to fail
In order to learn the correct way of doing something, you need to fail. That is what it is all about! Take, for example, the first step or two a baby takes. Those little feet will wobble, topple over and fall many times but in the end, those feet will learn to stand on their own. It is only a matter of learning and in order to learn; those feet need to fail first.
What lessons do we learn when failing?
To help you better understand the importance of failing, have a look at these lessons you learn when wanting to pull every hair from your head in frustration at failing.
When failing, you gain a huge amount of life experience. It gives to the opportunity to reflect upon the actions leading up to your failure and assists you in gathering the necessary experience to improve your state-of-mind and future self.
Knowledge is power and with power, you can do anything you put your mind to. Even though you fail a thousand times, you are helping yourself and others in the same situation gain access to the knowledge you need in order to succeed. Think of it this way; Thomas Edison didn’t invent the first light bulb by succeeding at the first attempt. It took many failures and many setbacks in order to create something we nowadays almost can’t live with at all!
When you fail and get back up, you are not only giving it another try; you are growing as a human being. If you want to improve your standing, you need to grow, reflect and give yourself room to make a few mistakes along the way.
If you don’t fail, you will never learn what the true value of succeeding means. Value is something you learn when failing and it gives you the perspective to revisit your end goal. By adding value to your failures, you can take a negative situation and turn it into a positive one; thus making success easier to reach!
Remember that failure is never seen as a complete fail unless you get back up and give it another try. With that being said, failure turned into positivity is not a failure at all. The only failure that keeps you seeing things in a negative light is a complete fail. So get back into your saddle as the failure myth has just been busted!
Wo Mere Aansu Hi To The
Wo mere aansu hi to the,
Bah gaye the jo bewajah bewakufi ke buniyaad pe,
Wo puch rahe hai aaj hamse,
ki tum rote nai kabhi,
kya batau unhe ki,
Ye jo vaat briksha ki tarah khada hai,
mushkilo me bhi jo aada hai,
inhi aansuo se to sincha gya hai,
kash koi hame pani de deta us samay,
to aaj log kam se kam patthar dil nai kahte,
Ha wo mere aansu hi to the,
Raund dale the aapne mere irado ko,
kuchal diye the mere jazbo ko pawo tale,
Ansuo se jagaya hamne irado ko,
chor di sari khushiya,
Palat kar bhi nai dekha tha hamne,
Apne jazbo ki khatir,
Ankhe sukh gayi, gala baith gya,
Mera Jazba Jee utha, per mere Jazbaat mar gaye,
AAj aap janab mere irado pe fakar krte ho,
Mere jazbe ko salam krte ho,
Kash mujh pe fakar kr liya hota,
Mere Jazbe aur Jazbaat dono salamat ho jate,
Ha wo mere aansu hi the,
Kabhi mile to puch kr dekhna us se,
Shayad pata chale ,
Shayad kuch yaad chale,
Wo kaha nai bahe,
Kisi ke jane ke baad bahe,
Kisi se jane ke baad bahe,
Khush hokar bhi bahe,
Dukhi hokar bhi bahe,
Kisi ki jindagi bigad kr bahi,
Kisi ki bana kar bahi,
Kabhi khud ke liye bahi,
Parayo ke liye bhi bahi,
Shayad koi rok pata,
Jo rokne aaye wo bhi bahakr gaye,
Ise to bahna tha,
Aur aap puch rahe ho tum rote kyu nai,
Aap ko to kal bhi galat fahmi thi,
Aaj bhi hai,
Apko pata bhi nai ki,
Hum ro nai sakte,
Isly to muskarate rahte hai,
Aur aaj aap kahne lage ho ki,
Aapki muskurahat bhagwan ka diya hua gift hai,
Apko pata bhi nai ye tohfa hame,
Ap hi logo se mila hai,
Ha ye mere aansu hi to the ,
Jo mere hasne ka karan bane.
Ha ye mere aansu hi to the.
Thoda Alsi Bhi To Hu !
Bahut dheere chala apni raho par,
Darta tha, tez chalunga to,
bahut kuch chor aaunga,
Aaj thoda aage nikla hu to yaad aaya ki,
Bahut kuch piche chor aaya hu,
Samajh me nai aata chor aaya hu ya,
Khud hi piche chhut gaye,
Par ab soch kr bhi kya phayda,
Phir jana aur wapas aana ho nai paega,
Thoda alsi bhi to hu.
Sochta hu ab daur hi jau,
Ruk kar dekha tha maine,
Koi nai aaya tha,
Adat nai thi patthro pe chalne ki,
Paw chil gaye the mere,
Rah dekha tha maine,
Marham wale ki,
Socha ekbar laut aau,
Per ab kaun aaye, Ab to ghaw bhi bhar gaye,
Aur thoda alsi bhi to hu..
I Am Not Your Hero
Unlike what I use to sing for you the song from the movie Desi Boyzz titled “Mein Tera Hero”, my perception has changed now with time. I knew when we started dating that I was an imperfect, but then I had the false notion that you have accepted me with the imperfection,which was an inseparable part of me. But with time your actions and silence have ripped my soul apart into pieces.
I have had enough of your crap… I have taken responsibility of a lot of wrong doings in which, quite frankly, I had no role to play. But then it’s enough now. Let me just say it to you “I am not your hero”.. Yes you heard it right. I repeat “I am not your hero”. Staying with you I have realised that I can’t be good to each and every person in the world. There are people and places where I have to show the dark side of mine. It can be a random stranger or it can be someone I use to love (you).
So, to you all reading this I must tell you what I have learnt from life – There are moments when you have to be harsh on people, that doesn’t make you a villain, but it shapes you as a man. Likewise, in a relationship too you go through a lot of emotional ups and downs. These things are meant to teach you emotional management. Unless you have gone through a breakup you don’t become fit in this survival of the fittest world.
Ya it’s true that “Wo aashiq hi kya jo ishq mein barbaad na howe”. But for a moment think about it why to say you have fallen in love. Why not say you have risen in love. This could add a different flavor to your life. Be a hero in your own eyes. No matter what happens you should not fail being a HERO of your own life.
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